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My condolences
If you find the right combination of drunk to stoned it usually mitigates that, but
you know
most people don't care enough for the effort, can't really blame them

you know what might be fun though
we should come up with a drinking game for it

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I probably should set a better example than engaging in crossfading.

[As tempting as it is.]

That sounds horribly dangerous to our livers. Though we could take bets on who's going to make the post and own up to it, and who will make which arguments in the comments.

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Well, we know it won't be Nate's brother
I don't think it'll be Kyna
I'm betting it'll be the other kid

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Ren? Probably.

He actually contacted me to talk to me about the whole thing because he didn't like that I was annoyed with Kyna about it.

[So, you know, another issue.]

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Teenagers

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Teenagers who are very concerned about not being seen as teenagers, but don't seem to want to be treated like adults either.

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So, teenagers.

I haven't been a teacher in years, I'm out of practice handling cocky youths.

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It's been awhile since I was a teenager, despite what people might say, so I'm also out of practice. Usually just treating them like adults works fine.

[But alas, not recently.]

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They have to act like adults to be treated like adults. The behavior I saw today was not that.

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I think they may have the belief that they're being disagreed with because they're being disregarded for their age, when it's really just that people disagree with them and are telling them so like adults. I'm not sure how to actually get that across to them, however.

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It's particularly frustrating because I wasn't disagreeing with them, not entirely. The complete inability to accept even the slightest deviation from their opinion is one thing, but immediately responding with the most scathing possible comment?

It's not even worth listening to them or speaking with them. I think that's the ultimate conclusion I've got to draw. A lack of engagement or response is the only sane way to deal with it.

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Ren seems to usually be reasonable and offers helpful information even if I sometimes disagree with his conclusions, but I think you're right regarding Akechi. If I wanted to argue with someone who has their mind made up and clearly isn't listening to anything I say, I would've gone to law school.

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or Philosophy
Ironically

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There's a reason why philosophy is a common undergrad degree for lawyers.

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It's because sociopaths need the help keeping up their human suit act

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I wouldn't go quite that far, but I get the sentiment.

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If it's any consolation as an engineering major I'm at least forty percent asshole

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At least.

[It's obviously a joke, but this is a moment where if he doesn't offer something in return that's going to be noticed; whether it'll be seen as being cold or just as a noteworthy curiosity he's not sure, but either way he thinks it might be okay to just be honest along with a caveat.]

I studied psychology, so I'm mostly made up of condescension and unwanted advice.

[Also obviously a joke, though his next comment is not--]

And that's not something I want widely shared, for probably obvious reasons.

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That makes an incredible amount of sense. I can imagine the things they'd accuse you of if they knew.

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[He's really glad Ian understands; he thought he would, but still. Lance often feels quite guilty for not telling anyone, but--]

That's why I decided not to mention it before; in Hadriel it caused so many problems. But yeah, it wasn't just undergrad; appropriately enough I specialize in trauma counseling.

[Something that you know, should be useful here, but he absolutely doesn't want to deal with how terrible the comments and insinuations would be if people here knew that.]

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Is it normal for people to suddenly feel like you're going to psychically read their minds and see all of their problems as soon as you tell them that or is that just me

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No, that's definitely the usual response, not just you.

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Thank god.

[ Ha ha nervous laughter ha ha jokes. ]

Kind of makes all of it a little funnier in hindsight.

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The discussion?

[Putting it in nice terms.]

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Discussions
Most of them
You get a lot of reactions, most of them jumping to some weird conclusions about your motivation or your attitude