kinks list

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Of note, while I as a player primarily play Dominant roles, Ian does skew more toward sub. I am willing to switch, but if you're trying to decide which way to go and you're split down the middle, opt for Ian as the submissive party.

YES	OPEN	NO
✓ cockwarming ✓ somnophilia ✓✓ size play ✓✓ objectification ✓ edging ✓ condescension ✓ deprioritization / inconsiderate of the sub ie "leg humping only", "you get off after I do" ✓✓ macro/microphilia ✓ insertion with the above ✓ dubcon ✓✓ noncon ✓ frottage ✓ oral sex ✓✓ mental sex ✓ enclosed spaces ✓✓ accidental stimulation ✓ cock transformation ✓ hypnotism/mind control ✓ orgasm control / denial ✓ sex pollen/potions/aliens/forced ✓ body sharing ✓✓ dom/sub ✓ face fucking ✓ vaginal sex ✓ handjobs ✓ rough sex ✓ dirty talking ✓✓ multiple orgasms ✓ multiple partners ✓ public sex ✓✓ normalization of sex in public spaces ✓ torture ✓ sex toys ✓ sex toy transformation ✓ humiliation ✓ free use ✓ bukkake ✓ overstimulation ✓ cock worship ✓ forced/targeted voyerism ie "you look only at my cock" or "maintain eye contact" ✓ training, ie "say thank you when you climax"	◌ breeding ◌ orientation play ◌ bloodplay ◌ pegging ◌ power imbalance ◌ spanking ◌ vore (via genitals rather than mouth, mouth-play okay but no hard vore) ◌ incest ◌ sounding ◌ clothed sex ◌ anal sex ◌ hair pulling ◌ biting ◌ scratching ◌ choking ◌ drugged/drunk ◌ blindfolds ◌ gags/ties/light bondage ◌ knifeplay ◌ gunplay ◌ hatesex ◌ watersports (for the purposes of humiliation or control, ie making the sub take it out and hold it for the dom)	✗ beastiality ✗ animal parts ✗ scat ✗ fisting ✗ amputation ✗ inflation ✗ extreme physical age differences ✗ mpreg ✗ ants ✗ a single ants ✗ ants or a single ant being the cock transformation ✗ enemas ✗ fisting ✗ foot play ✗ gender play ✗ guro / vore / heavy gore ✗ infantilism ✗ food play ✗ snuff ✗ knotting ✗ hard vore ie digestion